Why I believe Ryan and Stacy will be awesome parents.
I came to known Ryan and Stacy 2 or 3 years ago when I hired Ryan to do some remodeling on our 95 year old house. I had no idea how or who to hire. Ryan was recommended by the plumber we hired on a recommend from the furnace people we got through Costco. To make a long story short, both the plumber, Kelly, and the contractor, Ryan, were truly gifts from God. Both of them remain good friends to this day.
I was and am astonished at Ryan. He showed up looking like a kid with a big smile. But at 27 years old he was a licensed general contractor that owned his own company, Krew Construction. He even had a logo on his shirt and hat and business cards which I found out later that Stacy had designed! I put him to work remodeling the bathroom downstairs and fixing the ceiling and walls that Kelly had torn out to replace the plumbing. He was one of the hardest workers and most honest men I have ever known and his "Krew" and he worked hard together. He did things for us beyond what was ever required or expected, like moving our stuff to a storage unit and so much more. And he did beautiful work. I couldn't believe how competent and professional he was for such a young man. I of course (if you know me you will understand) adopted him and his crew. They felt like family. They treated me like family (only way more expensive!) Our family had been going through difficult trials and they brought energy and light and joy into our home. I met Stacy because I wanted to meet the wife he spoke so highly of and she wanted to come take pictures of my awesome new travertine bathroom that Ryan designed and built. I felt an immediate kinship with her. She is a bit shy but her smile says it all. She is full of light and kindness.
Ryan and Stacy fit together. I knew they loved each other. I knew they loved the Lord and the gospel of Jesus Christ. The way they lived was a testimony to me. They both worked hard. Stacy taught graphic design at a local college and loved photography. They had material things but only when they could buy them. I was surprised to find out that they were debt free except for their house and cars. I didn't know that someone 27 years old could be so financially responsible. They both honored the priesthood and the the gospel and each other. I hold honesty in the highest regard, and I trusted him.
After the basement remodel we decided to finally remodel the upstairs, a dream I'd had for 25 years. He had another project so we took that time to refinance our house to have the money. During the 2nd phase of the remodel we became even closer friends. Ryan confided in me that they were trying to have a baby but things were not going well. It was during that time that I got to know Stacy better. She is quiet and unassuming and humble. But she is rock solid and keeps Ryan, the perfectionist and worrier, grounded. And yet as time went on and she wasn't able to become pregnant it was very difficult for them. It is always heartbreaking to watch a couple that desire a family above anything else, and for the right reasons, go through the infertility process. They and their families were praying and fasting for a baby.
During the final phase of our remodel, which by the way is so well done and is so beautiful, our 18 year old son was diagnosed with cancer, osteosarcoma, he had a tumor on his skull. We were dear friends by then. We kept in touch, they were so supportive of me and I knew I could ask him to help me anytime. They checked on us often. During this time Ryan and Stacy had to realize that their family would come in a different way, they would not be able to have a child. We all prayed for each other and learned to rely on our Heavenly Father.
Ryan called me a few months ago to tell me they were moving to California. The recession had affected his business and he wanted to be in a position to make enough money and have health insurance so that Stacy could quit her job and be a full time mother. They had sold their house and his work truck and he had accepted a job with his brother in California. He had taken a position that he was really overqualified for but was anxious to learn new aspects of the construction business and having a family with Mom at home was number one priority. I was sad, but so proud.
So that is why I believe Ryan and Stacy will be awesome parents.
Lewetta Poen
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I think Stacy and Ryan will make awesome parents! They are always the first to volunteer to babysit and help out with their nieces and nephews.
They love being around children. I would often have my grand daughter at my house, babysitting, and they would both show up to see her. They gravitate to being around her. They are so patient and loving with her. They love watching her and being friends with her. They take the time to teach her new things and encourage her learning process.
They have a strong loving marriage, which is centered around prayer. They know that Heavenly Father is guiding them and they follow what they are prompted to do.
They love to travel and marvel at the wondrous works of God.
I know that they will love any child and be the best parents too. They will teach their child about God, and prayer too. Any child would be lucky to be adopted by Stacy and Ryan.
Sincerely,
Nancy and Dale Smith
Stacy's parents
They love being around children. I would often have my grand daughter at my house, babysitting, and they would both show up to see her. They gravitate to being around her. They are so patient and loving with her. They love watching her and being friends with her. They take the time to teach her new things and encourage her learning process.
They have a strong loving marriage, which is centered around prayer. They know that Heavenly Father is guiding them and they follow what they are prompted to do.
They love to travel and marvel at the wondrous works of God.
I know that they will love any child and be the best parents too. They will teach their child about God, and prayer too. Any child would be lucky to be adopted by Stacy and Ryan.
Sincerely,
Nancy and Dale Smith
Stacy's parents
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As Ryan's dad and Stacy's father in law, I'm so proud to say they both have the moral strength needed in today's world to guide and raise a child. Both coming from close/large families will give them a strong basis of experience to raise a child. They both have shown love and closeness to each of their nieces and nephews. And the greatest compliment….they have a great love for each other.
Respectfully submitted,
Jack Robinson
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I have know Ryan and Stacy for close to a decade now and I can say without hesitation they will be wonderful, loving parents for a child who is lucky enough to be in their care. Stacy has the ability to be creative with very little inspiration. She has a personality that is loving towards all and her patience is unsurpassed. Stacy can cultivate a creative atmosphere while providing loving, and caring attention to help whomever she is working with achieve their goals. Stacy loves children and her compassion makes her an extremely effective teacher and more importantly a confidant that child gravitate towards
Ryan is the definition of a multi-talented man. His vision for building and innovative projects and products astounds all that are around him. As a father he would love unconditionally and show a child how to be a productive, modern, and useful person. Ryan has the ability to make friends with everyone and be a great team leader.
I would not hesitate to give a professional and personal recommendation to both Ryan and Stacy to have the pleasure and sincere joy of raising a child.
Jake Gaston
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Ryan and Stacy will make super parents. Their love for each other is so strong and I am so proud of what they have accomplished!
Patty Robinson
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Stacy and Ryan will be wonderful parents. Heavenly Father has taken them on this journey to make them strong as individuals and as a couple. They have a very strong relationship which will translate when they become parents.
My sister, Stacy, is one of the most caring people. She is always willing to help whenever it is needed. She will always help me design a picture or a project that I am working on. She is one of my very best friends. She is 5 years older than I am, and so when I was younger she would always care for me. From the times she would dress me up in Cabbage Patch Kids clothes to the times she would help me get ready for the high school dances she always took care of me. Ever since our niece was born, Stacy always wanted to be around her. She always takes the time to teach her new things like building with blocks, saying thank you, and new dance moves. There is no doubt in my mind that Stacy will be a fabulous mother. She has every single quality that a great mother needs.
Ryan is like a big brother I never had. He is always trying to be silly and make jokes. He loves to cook and is wonderful at it. It’s always a great meal when Ryan cooks. He is very patient when it comes to teaching people new skills. When they got their boat, it took many tries to learn to wakeboard. He would sit out in the water with me to help me and then swim to where I feel. He kept encouraging me and giving me tips. He was so proud and excited for me once I finally figured it out. He is always very thoughtful towards Stacy. He always leaves her notes and tells her he loves her. He loves to be next to her.
They have a wonderful relationship and grow stronger everyday with every challenge that comes their way. They are a great example to me. I look up to them for advice and comfort. They are always there for me. I know that they would show that same care towards a baby. They are so excited to become parents and they look forward to the day when this happens.
Shelly Gaston
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Stacy is one of my oldest friends. She’s one of those people who you can go months without talking to and, when you finally talk again, it’s like nothing has changed. She is kind and sincere and fun and such a good person. Every time we get together, my husband tells me she is his favorite of all my friends. I have always believed she will be a good mom simply because she cares about people so much. I have only known Ryan since he and Stacy got married. I remember the first time I met him. I was home from college for Christmas break and we had a neighborhood party. We laughed the entire night. I went home and told my mom that Stacy was marrying the coolest guy and she was going to be so happy. And she is. The thing I want for my children, more than anything, is for them to have parents that love each other. Any baby that is adopted by Stacy and Ryan will definitely have that. I consider myself lucky to know them.
Stephanie Jensen
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I have known Stacy for 17 years, and she is one of the sweetest, most selfless people that I have ever met. She would be willing to do anything for anyone. I know that she would make a great mom to any lucky child. When Stacy married Ryan, he was the ideal dad. You can tell the way he acts around kids that he has always wanted to be a dad. We have four kids of our own, and they love their "aunt Stacy" and "uncle Ryan". I have watched how hard it has been on them to try to have a baby and feel as though their life is incomplete without one. I know that when they do get the opportunity to have children in their life, it will make them so happy, and I can't think of anyone more deserving to be parents. They are very family oriented and do so many fun things together as a family and with their extended families. They are both very smart, successful, hard working, loving, kind people, and I know they will raise their children to be the same.
Tanya Foster
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Hello, my name is Jen Burge. I have been friends with Stacy as long as I can remember, since we were 3 years old. We were best friends growing up. And we have remained best friends as the years have passed by. I know Ryan and Stacy very well and I know that they would make great parents! I would like to give you a few reasons to why I know this.
Stacy has been a wonderful friend to me! One thing that I think makes Stacy stand out to me as someone who would make a great mother is that Stacy is not hasty to make a decision. Whether it is an educational decision, a financial decision or a spiritual decision she goes through the pros and cons to make the best decision possible. I am a mother myself and I think that this characteristic is vital in the caring and rearing of children. You need to make good decisions in the care of your children so that they can grow up as good, happy and respectful people. These decisions will affect how you teach your children, how you discipline your children, and choices and experiences that you give your children. I know that Ryan and Stacy would make great decisions in the care of their children!
Another characteristic that is important, I think, when raising children is the ability to have fun and have a good attitude. I know that both Ryan and Stacy have wonderful attitudes, they like to have fun and make things special for one another. They are both very caring and loving toward each other and toward their friends and family. Ryan and Stacy have a great desire to be parents. And I know that they would make wonderful parents to any child!
Jen Burge
Another characteristic that is important, I think, when raising children is the ability to have fun and have a good attitude. I know that both Ryan and Stacy have wonderful attitudes, they like to have fun and make things special for one another. They are both very caring and loving toward each other and toward their friends and family. Ryan and Stacy have a great desire to be parents. And I know that they would make wonderful parents to any child!
Jen Burge
